Come as you are, mating in captivity and she comes first 3 books collection set. Mating in In Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel looks at the story of sex in committed couples. Modern romance promises it all - a lifetime of togetherness, intimacy and erotic desire. In reality, it's hard to want what you already have. Our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. Come as You After all the books that have been written about sex, all the blogs and TV shows and radiO Q&As, how can it be that we all still have so many questions? The frustrating reality is that we’ve been lied to - not deliberately, it’s no one’s fault, but still. We were told the wrong story. She Comes Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.”